Comments on: The Trick All Women Play

By: When a Window Closes, a Door Opens « 1 Single Guy

When a Window Closes, a Door Opens « 1 Single Guy — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 04:16:03 +0000

[...] On a side note, I wonder how these ladies feel about me being on the dating scene. I am upfront when they ask if I am seeing anyone, but I can’t help but believe they are all thinking the same thing. [...]

By: Kimberly

Kimberly — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 19:42:35 +0000

haha, i can’t lie- I’ve seen this happen. But I’m one of those rare girls that at the moment you say, “i’m dating a variety of girls right now” i say, “see ya”- I won’t participate in the “competition”.

By: Katie

Katie — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 19:04:34 +0000

Hmm.

By: abarclay12

abarclay12 — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 06:07:39 +0000

I agree. When I hear that a guy I’m dating is dating other women, I step up my game. I’ve even had to eliminate some of my competitors, but I can’t really talk about that online.

By: Justin

Justin — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 01:29:55 +0000

saneandsingle,
I concede that exceptions do exist

Akua,
I’m not into the mind games so I’m upfront, it’s easier in the long run.

luckysjoint,
glad you agree bro

stepher,
1. I agree, we obviously have never dated
2. Logic wasn’t needed because it wasn’t an argument, just a fact

By: stepher

stepher — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 23:24:48 +0000

Wow.

“How does she get you all to herself? By acting like nothing ever really bothers her, by “liking” almost everything you like, and by going along with everything you want to do (i.e. watching sports at the bar 3 times in a week).”

1. Obviously, we’ve never dated.
2. I see no logic in your argument whatsoever.

By: luckysjoint

luckysjoint — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 21:16:34 +0000

1 Single Guy…I agree with you! It is the oldest trick in the book women play. Funny thing is that I do not think women even know that they are playing it. It is natural for them to want the unattainable and to win and beat out other women on the prize.

Sometimes it becomes all about winning and very little about the prize…

By: akua1978

akua1978 — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 17:37:21 +0000

So tell us honestly how would you feel about a woman dating serially. I have found that what is good for the gander is definitely notf good for the goose.

Would it make a difference if the woman in question was not sleeping with these men, like yourself. I wouldn’t say its a trick, she might generally like you an d consequently steps up her game to ensure that you don’t forget who she is amongst all your other prospectives.

When you are honest that you are seeing other people, are you completely honest about the number involved or are you vague?

I agree with saneandsingle that two can play that game but it really is not that simple in the dating game

By: saneandsingle

saneandsingle — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 15:57:04 +0000

Wow…I must not be a normal girl then, because the following doesn’t happen for me:

“1) it makes you more attractive to her…. 2) her new mission is to “beat out” those other “bitches” and have you all to herself.”

I actually do the opposite…I might actually continue to see the man, but I will see less of him and MORE of others! LOL

I’m more of a “two can play that game” girl….erm…woman! Do you date girls or women? There is a difference.