The Biggest First Date Turn-Off

You take a shower, put on your favorite shirt, pick out your best pair of pants, spray on that cologne/perfume, do your hair just right, take a deep breath, then walk out the door. It’s time for that first date. You met this Jane/John Doe, hit it off, and have now scheduled a time to get to know each other a little bit better.

Personally, I don’t get all that nervous on first dates, but maybe it’s because I haven’t gone on a date with someone I was REALLY crushing on – just more spur of the moment, no expectation type deals. If things work out with this waitress girl, then I will probably be real nervous.

So even though I don’t get nervous, it doesn’t mean that all my dates are good. Sometimes they are a big turn-off. Turn-offs take different forms for different people. For me, I am turned off when I find myself having to drive the conversations… like if I didn’t ask her questions we would be sitting there in silence. In other words, I need a competent girl who is comfortable with human interaction.  I hate having to “interview” my date…

That is my biggest turn-off on a date. What about you? Ladies, what turns you off to a guy on a date? Fellas, what gets to you?

This will def help me with my upcoming date (Jenny) in the near future!